A note before you continue:

Healthy dynamics are are negotiated, not dictated, and with that in mind I have taken the time write out the terms I am comfortable with for engaging in dynamics that serve my needs, are safe to participate in, and that don’t lead to a negative outcome by participating in them. As you read this page understand that these are MY terms for MY side of the dynamic. You are expected to bring your own terms, limits, and consent for YOUR side of the dynamic when negotiating a dynamic with me. I encourage you to take notes and ask questions, no matter what they are. I am an open book.

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