I am seeking a LONG TERM DYNAMIC for a FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP and my preference is MONOGAMOUS.
I limit my interaction with people who approach me for DYNAMIC ONLY types of relationships.
Here is a link to my entire Domme/Mistress profile where I have details about myself, my interests, and an extensive Q&A series about my style as a Domme.
I request that you read it fully before approaching me for a dynamic or sessions.
https://thehautemistress.17hats.com/portal/#/2j5n9BGh7x
41F Mistress seeking cisgender male sub in Dallas/Fort Worth, TX and Honolulu, Oahu, HI
💯 Lifestyle Domme/Mistress
🚫 NOT a Pro Domme
🚫 NOT a FinDom
🚫 NOT Pay-2-Play
🚫 NOT a Kink Dispenser
🚫 NOT a Content Creator
🚫 NO Personalized Porn
WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:
I’m seeking a cisgender male sub between the age of 30-60 located in the Dallas/Fort Worth Texas area or Honolulu, Oahu, Hawaii. I would prefer someone who is into sensual domination, that also likes impact play and anal play. You must be DRAMA/DRUG/DISEASE free. I’m not looking for a one time use sub, but rather someone who is wanting regular sessions at least 2 times per month or more. Weekly sessions is ideal. I am willing to take on subs new to Femdom, but l have an extensive protocol regarding that type of interaction. I am open to all body types & ethnicities. Tattoos and body modifications are ok, and I like facial hair.
The expectations I have for my subs is pretty simple:
- Transparency and honesty
- Commitment to our dynamic
- Consent
- Respect my limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries
WHO I AM:
I am a straight cisgender female Mistress who splits her time between Dallas, TX, USA & Oahu, HI, USA. I am a 40 year old successful woman who has her business on auto pilot at this point. That allows me to spend 2 weeks a year working and the rest of the year doing whatever I want while working an hour a day from my laptop. This has allowed me to spend a lot of my time in Hawaii while I have been single. I have been single since June of 2022.
I am educated and worldly and have a tendency to surround myself with open minded individuals. When I’m in Hawaii you can find me on, in, under, or within 300 yards of the ocean daily. When I am in Texas I tend to be a little bit more of a homebody and spend a lot of my time with my dog or at home immersed in my hobbies or reading. My hobbies include attending shows and concerts frequently, art shows/festivals, going to museums, traveling, photography, drawing/painting, sewing, cooking and entertaining, movies, snowboarding, ice skating, air hockey, hiking, scuba and free diving, snorkeling, and boating.
I have recently taken up leather crafting for kink and I’m in love with it! A lot of my pieces are things I have made for myself.
MY EXPERIENCE:
Kink since 2003. BDSM since 2012. Domme leaning switch since 2019. Currently I am engaging in M/s dynamics only as of late 2024.
What I offer my submissive is the opportunity to engage in a safe and consensual dynamic where their needs are met, their limits are respected, and their consent is required. I want to leave my subs better off than the way I found them. I offer my subs:
- Friendship
- Emotional Support
- Positive Guidance
- Healthy Habits & Routines
- Physical Intimacy
- Safe Kink Exploration
- Aftercare
- Transparency & Honesty
- Respect
- Consent
- Commitment
- Respecting limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries
MY INTERESTS:
My interests are in impact play, anal play, pegging, worship, massage, choking, degradation, bondage, leather restraints, lingerie, aftercare, and more. Just ask me!
MY STATS:
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Relationships – SINGLE
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Age – 41
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Hair – RED
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Eyes – BROWN
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Bust – 38F
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Waist – 33in
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Hips – 50in
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Height – 5’4″
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Weight – 210lbs
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Tattoos – YES
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Piercings – EARS ONLY
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Body Hair – NO
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Tobacco – NO
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Alcohol – NO
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Recreational Drugs – NO
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You can read my full Lifestyle Domme/Mistress profile by going to the “About Me” section of my website, or by CLICKING HERE.